it's a beautiful day today.. sun is shining.. but i just can't go outside. :[ it's too busy and crowded and augh.. i want to make friends.. i want to go outside.. but i freeze up. i'm so sick of sitting around here.. wishing i could make friends..
sorry, i'm just really frustrated..
sorry, i'm just really frustrated..
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Re: get me out of the house!
Thu, April 17, 2008 - 5:30 AMYou're invited to come sailing!
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Re: get me out of the house!
Thu, April 17, 2008 - 8:43 AMThat's crazy, you are super cute i bet if you went to a dog park or something you could meet people easily.....you don't even have to have a dog, if any one asks just point at one running around. Call him/her Turbo. -
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Re: get me out of the house!
Thu, April 17, 2008 - 2:08 PM+1
You are cute, own it. That being said a lot of the times shyness acts a sort of social handicap, people don't want to hang with people who stare at the ground, cross their arms, and refuse to talk. This is how shy people come off to non-shy people--cold, unapproachable and snobbish, when we are usually anything but these things. Body language is so key, exude some confidence, put your shoulders back, make eye contact, and *smile* and lots of people are going to be more willing to talk to you. But none of these things will help you if you're still inside your house. ;) It's sort of like realty, location, location, location, is key when making friends. If you don't put yourself out there, no one will get the chance to get know you. Join a book club, hit your sister/cousin/coworker up for some invites, place an ad on craig's list, lol, i dunno there are lots of things you can do and I suggest go out and actually doing them. :)
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Re: get me out of the house!
Wed, May 21, 2008 - 9:08 AMJenni,
You stated in your profile that you like dance. Are you taking lessons? Going somewhere that you can dance? If you go somewhere that you can do something you're really good at (or very eager to learn) then you will probably have enough confidence to put yourself out there. Good luck :)
~ Phil